Perhaps Anita’s way of working coincidentally fits very well with my personality. Perhaps her style happens to be the right one that helps me to move beyond the challenges I face. But I don’t think it is coincidence. I think that, even with a client who has a personality totally different than mine, she would know how to touch the cords as faultlessly as she does with me.
How you manage to fine-tune your method with such a subtlety to the person you coach goes beyond my understanding, however looking back at our sessions I see the quality of her accuracy everywhere.
I’ve got stumbling blocks and questions I find difficult to get out, but Anita helps me to give focus to my struggle. She manages to bring me to the point where I am able to find myself – sooner or later. It’s still me who’s driving the search, but it goes faster to the goal (even if the goal is still shrouded in mystery).
No-one else I know has quality to call you to order so effortlessly. I can start a conversation, thinking I might be too absentminded or still feeling sleepy that day, to be surprised that after barely 10 minutes and a few well targeted questions that I arrived without noticing in the here and now, searching for solutions. In every way, a session with Anita is thorough and comprehensive.
Time after time we reach a point in our conversation where I think: I’ve never looked at it from that perspective. Yet these are the nuclei around which things fail to run smoothly of feel rough….
After a couple of hours coaching, Anita gives me the feeling she understands my perspective. This helps me tremendously, because I have someone who is able to look at my issues with some distance and can hold up a mirror, but without me having a reflex to feel I need to justify myself.
Despite feeling exhausted, all these things make me go home with an invigorating kind of energy.
